Emotional Hypersensitivity and the “Allergy” Model of ADD: Understanding Sensitive Children | Chapter 7 of Scattered Minds by Gabor Maté

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Emotional Allergies: Sensitivity at the Core of ADD

Dr. Gabor Maté introduces the idea of “emotional allergies” to explain why people with ADD are so often emotionally hypersensitive. Just as a person’s body may overreact to harmless substances, a sensitive child may respond intensely to minor emotional cues—a sigh, a subtle look, or a change in tone. These reactions are not manipulative, but a reflection of a nervous system finely tuned to detect danger.

Physical and Emotional Sensitivity: Parallel Traits

Maté highlights how children with ADD often experience both emotional and physical sensitivities—such as allergies, asthma, or frequent infections. Rather than seeing these physical issues as causes of ADD, he argues they are co-expressions of the same inherited trait: heightened reactivity to the environment. Sensitivity is not a disorder, but a variation that, when unsupported, can manifest as ADD symptoms.

Misunderstood Reactions: Environment and Vulnerability

Through vivid examples, like a child feeling “yelled at” during a family dinner despite a calm tone, Maté shows how easily sensitive children are misunderstood. Their responses—emotional outbursts, physical symptoms, or apparent dramatics—are often dismissed or punished, when in fact they signal a nervous system under stress.

This sensitivity becomes problematic only in an environment that does not recognize or nurture it. In chaotic, inattentive, or emotionally unsafe settings, sensitive children are far more likely to develop ADD as a maladaptive response to ongoing stress.

Strength in Sensitivity: Reframing the Narrative

Crucially, Maté argues that hypersensitivity is not a flaw but an asset. Sensitive individuals often become artists, healers, and visionaries. Their heightened awareness allows them to perceive nuances others miss. However, without adequate emotional safety and support, this very trait can become a liability, leading to lifelong struggles with attention and regulation.

• Emotional hypersensitivity as central to ADD
• Physical and emotional allergies as parallel expressions of sensitivity
• Sensitivity is inherited, not pathological
• ADD as a stress response in the sensitive nervous system
• Environment determines whether sensitivity leads to suffering
• Sensitive people are creators, healers, and visionaries

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Conclusion: Valuing and Supporting Sensitive Children

Chapter 7 of Scattered Minds is a call to shift how we view and respond to sensitivity in children and adults. Rather than pathologizing emotional reactivity, we must recognize it as an asset that needs careful nurturing. With the right support, sensitive individuals can thrive, bringing creativity, empathy, and insight to the world.

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